Bye, Sophy “Doreen” (née: Apostal)
BYE, SOPHY “DOREEN” (née: Apostal)
aka: Dodie, Uncle Sophie, Grammy, Kato, Momma Bye, Grama D
Sophy Doreen Bye aged 85 years of Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan, passed away on Thursday, February 19th, 2026.
She was predeceased by her father, John Apostal (2000) and mother, Alice (née: Petruic – 2002). Doreen is survived by her son, John David and his wife Donna (née: MacQuarrie), their children Amanda Bye and her daughter Hennessy, Adrian Bye (Emily Haber) and his daughter Sophia, McKayla (MacQuarrie) and her husband Travis Hepworth; son, Robert and his wife Simone Soares; daughter, Kara Bye-Barclay (Garry Goodspeed) and her children Dary (Sarah) and their daughters Alice, Florence, Margot, and Fiona, Tayler Barclay (Shael Bourne), Raelle Barclay and her husband Gage Seida and their son Jalen; brother, Alan Vilcu (Terry) and his family Tiffany, Cheyla, and Josh; and extended family Douglas Barclay, Terrill and David Cairns, Sherrill and Brian Kline, Tyler Cairns (Taylor McLaren).
Doreen was born in the Crystal Hill District, 13-10-25, West of 2nd, attended Croft School, Excelsis (Kayville), Creemore (Ormiston), and Tech High (Peacock) in Moose Jaw. She married Raymond Bye in 1964 and moved to Sudbury, ON where all three of their children were born, and returned to Moose Jaw in 1969.
Doreen volunteered with the International Order of Job’s Daughters, Order of DeMolay, Canadian Red Cross, Moose Jaw Cultural Centre, Cosmos Senior Centre, AAA Warriors, and Wakamow Valley Authority.
A Celebration of Doreen’s Life will be held on Saturday, February 21st, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at Moose Jaw Funeral Home. Those not able to attend may view the service by going to www.moosejawfuneralhome.com/webcast/. A private family interment will take place at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in Doreen’s name may be made to the Wakamow Valley Authority, 276 Home St E, Moose Jaw, SK S6H 4P9 or the Moose Jaw Cultural Centre (Mae Wilson Theatre), 217 Main St N, Moose Jaw, SK S6H 0W1. Arrangements are entrusted to Moose Jaw Funeral Home, 268 Mulberry Lane. Andrew Pratt, Funeral Director 306-693-4550
Doreen was always so full of life. My friend of so many years. We worked together at the police station as matrons, then for many Moose Jaw elections and other things. You will certainly liven up where you are now. I will miss you .
My deepest condolences to the family. Sorry so late but just heard about her death today.
Sending love to the family. Doreen was such a wonderful woman who always went out of her way to help everyone around her.
Her honest and genuine love of giving was so profound and she always lit up the room.
She will be so missed.
Doreen touched everyone she ever met. Her love of life. Her giving heart..her humor are her legacy to all.
Every time I saw her, she truly made my day a little brighter. She had such a warm, radiant spirit that touched everyone around her — she was a light in so many lives. She will be deeply and lovingly missed. My heartfelt condolences go out to her immediate and extended family during this incredibly difficult time.
Doreen was a dear friend that brighten my day every time we talked. She will be missed terribly. My condolences goes out the the family.
My condolences to the family. I knew Doreen through slo-pitch and admired her for playing abilities. I will miss seeing her zipping around in her red truck and any saying “hi neighbour “ when our paths crossed. She was always friendly and had a smile on her face. The community has lost a very special person. Again, to the family so sorry for your loss.
Doreen was such an amazing human being. She brought life to the slo pitch diamonds and is now a true angel. My heart goes out to the Bye family and I know you will have many memories of this loving although feisty lady.
Gods speed Doreen (Mom)
You were one of the brightest shining stars I had the pleasure to know.
Sorry to hear about Mrs Bye. A great lady always there to help. RIP Momma Bye!
Rest with the angels Doreen. You light up the office every time you visited. You will be missed by all at the complex.
I remember Doreen fondly from our days working at SIAST. My condolences to her family.
Doreen was an energetic person in motion who was involved in helping so many others in so many ways. Without missing a year for 20+ years she called me on my birthday When she worked nights/evenings I would often find a gift on my desk the next morning. She enthusiastically complemented and encouraged others. Thank you Doreen.
I first met Doreen when we worked at Valley View Centre. Many years later, our paths crossed again at Johnstone’s Auction Mart. Doreen was a regular at the Saturday morning sales. Always looking for a treasure ! She came in with a big hello and took time to visit with everyone. She will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends.
Gramma D, you were loved more than you ever knew by everyone that had the pleasure to know you
You will be forever missed and you will always hold a special place in my heart
Fly high with the Angels as you will always be our very special ‘Guardian Angel”
Sending so much love and hugs to John, Robert, Kara and your families at this very difficult time
Sending our sympathy to John, Rob and Kara. Your mom was one of my favourite “parents”.Always enjoyed the occasions when we would meet her around town. Will miss her spunk and her smile. Cherish your memories.
To Doreen’s family, Doreen will be missed by many. It was always a pleasure to run into her and catch up. Thinking of you with sympathy.
Dear John, Donna and Family,
Our condolences at the passing of your Mother/Grandma. May her strength, zest for life, curiosity and duty to serve be part of the proud memories you hold in your hearts.
The Whittles
Doreen you are such a brave lady. I will miss our laughs, our tears and most of all our friendship. You were the first to hold my two babies. Your love for animals was beautiful. I will miss you my friend. Play cards with everyone you meet up there ands don’t forget baseball.
To The Family:
I remember Doreen – we both went to Moose Jaw Tech in the 1950s. We are the same age.
My deepest condolences…
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of such a dynamic woman as Doreen! Her vivacious nature, her physical presence and those all-encompassing smiles will always be remembered. Her volunteerism was an inspiration to everyone around her.
My sincere condolences to John, Donna, McKayla, Travis and all of Doreen’s family. May her strong spirit continue in your hearts.
Sincere sympathy to all the family. Doreen was an exceptional volunteer. When I was a coordinator for the Red Cross she was one of my faithfuls. I could always count on her every time no matter how big or small the task was. She’s leaving hard shoes to fill. Rest in peace Doreen.
I am so deeply saddened to read of Doreen’s passing. I’ve known her for many years. I don’t think I’ve met anyone who was as positive as what she was. There were no strangers in her life, rather, just potential friends. She will be so greatly missed.
Dodie, we are so happy to have known you, you were a great , kind soul. Condolences to her family and friends.
We are sorry to hear of the passing of Doreen. She always had a smile and was nice to visit with at the AAA Warriors games. Shane enjoyed teasing her. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
David, Robert Kara Alan and families
I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom will never be forgotten by anyone who was fortunate enough to call her friend. Her zest for life and living was contagious, her ability to remember minute details always amazed me. She was an incredible woman who never shied away from anything or anyone, and was always ready to lend a helping hand. She lived, loved and laughed often and well.
I met your mom a couple of times over several years, but saw her around many times. The room she was in would be warmer & more friendly. She always looked the leader in volunteer settings, take charge kinda woman (in a good way). I will miss her.
My sincere condolence to Doreen’s family and friends.
My condolences to Doreen’s family. I will miss her smiling face, twinkling eyes and mischief. ❤️
I’d like to extend my deepest condolences to the Bye family during this difficult time. I first met Dorreen back when I was in high school, she was very in volved in DeMolay and was a ray of light to our chapter. Later in life we crossed paths many times as she was an avid supporter of live music. She was always present at gigs where I played. Her sense of positivity and fair play preceded her everywhere she was. She’ll be missed by many. Rest in peace Dorreen and bless your soul.
I didn’t know Doreen well but I remember her well in the early days of the Saskatchewan Powerlifting Association Her then husband Ray Bye was the first president of the organization and Doreen was always there I’m sure well involved behind the seems to get things done
I saw Her last fall at the Moose Jaw and District Hall of Fame and er had a nice little catch
My condolences to her family and friends
I knew Doreen, though not as well as lots of folks. I enjoyed every single encounter I ever had with her. I just loved her energy, her joie de vivre, her unstoppable nature. My sincere sympathy to all of her family and her friends. I know you will all miss her so much.
Our thoughts and prayers for the family of this angel on earth. Doreen left a big hole in the city known and loved by many for her selfless time volunteering. It was a blessing to have known her for many years
Remember the good times and Doreen will be always be with you. I will miss her phone calls and visits and so will a lot of other people. She was a wonderful person to know and brought cheers to everybody’s life. Thoughts and prayers for all of you at this time of sorrow.
Doreen was loved by so many and loved beyond measure. Our deepest condolences to all. Please tuck all the memories in your heart, share the stories, and we hope in time it will be easier to breathe. Memory Eternal
I knew Doreen in our younger years when we used to go roller skating in the temple gardens hall. Met up again a few years ago and had many visits she was such a bubbly person.. Condolences to the family
I always admired Doreen, how she was always involved in baseball and volunteering in all the various activities in Moose Jaw. I will miss seeing her smile, her hugs, her energy. My condolences to all of you!
My deepest condolences to Doreen’s amazing family, and of course to all who loved her. Doreen, you will be so greatly missed and have left such a beautiful legacy in your kind, considerate, compassionate and loving family. Thank you my friend for all you so unselfishly gave to so many.
Thoughts and prayers to Doreen’s family. Always smiling and cheerful
Sincere condolences to Doreen’s family. I had the opportunity to serve in the Canadian Red Cross with Doreen and witnessed first hand her high level of commitment to community service and her passion in assisting people in need. She was always a first choice to call when someone was needed immediately to assist individuals and families with emergency assistance. Whether it was a local situation or one that required her to travel to other locations, she always seemed to answer the call and make it work. Doreen commenced her exceptional volunteer Red Cross service answering the request for compassionate services as a member of the MJ Technical Collegiate Red Cross Youth Group in April 1954 when the Moose Jaw air crash occurred. She continued without a pause as an active member through the years as a Blood Clinic volunteer and Emergency Responder for the next 68 years and received the Order of the Red Cross for her efforts. Doreen set the bar high and was such a role model for others. Rest in Peace.
Wow! What a dash Doreen lived…one that is not easily duplicated! A very special mother and friend, but humans like her are extremely rare. We all have been blessed to be part of her kinship and love. She always made time to say a special hi to myself and our family. What a beautiful person she was… she will be missed! We join your family at this time of loss and reflection to share in celebration of her magnificent life!
We first met through the dance festival, where Doreen kept our girls safe from any intruders. Every election, walking grandchildren to school and every time there was a chance to dance.
She brightened the room with her smile wherever she went. She will be sorrily missed by all who knew her. She’ll make heaven a little brighter!
How sad I was to hear that Doreen has passed on. I’ve only been in MJ 6 years but she had quite an impact on my life starting when she ran across the paved street barefoot to welcome this newbie to the neighbourhood as I walked my dog. Whether it was working elections as my supervisor or picking up eggs she brought uncommon energy to every task and never failed to brighten my day. She was one of a kind and will be missed so much.
Our condolences to the entire Bye family. May your memories of Doreen bring you comfort at this time. Doreen was always enthusiastic and full of energy and these qualities were always on display whenever our paths would cross. Community minded and kindhearted she’ll be missed by many in our community. Rest in peace, Doreen.
Brian and Gwen Montague
We love you – always and forever.
Condolences to my old friends. Doreen was always welcoming to all the neighborhood kids on Valley View Drive. Every time I ran into her into her over the years (when I was back in Moose Jaw) , she greeted me with such a warm and welcoming smile and conversation, that she is easily one of the adults that I hold fond memories of from my childhood. I will always remember her kindheartedness. Sorry to hear of her passing.
Russ Clarke
My first memory of Doreen Bye is still in my mind. It was at a Cub scouts parent/son supper/luncheon at St. Michael’s and All Angels Anglican church. She was always connected to our South hill community. She was a person who noticed you.
My condolences to John, Rob,Kara and family, and friends who knew her.
Doreen was a very special lady and a special “cuz” and I shall miss her terribly! My deepest condolences to Kara, John David and Robert and all of your families ! Your mom brought great joy in everyone’s lives that she touched. I know she certainly brought immeasurable joy to mine and was always there to help Mom and Dad ! Thoughts and prayers and much love to all of you !
Wanda Bistritzan and family !
My condolences to ‘The Bye Family’. I first met Doreen years back, when we both volunteered at The Mae Wilson Theatre. Since then, when ‘our paths’ crossed, she was always so friendly. A caring, kind person for sure, who will missed by many in Moose Jaw.
Rest in Peace❣️
Dear Kara and families,
My deepest sympathy to you all for this monumental loss. Losing Mom is so difficult. The world suddenly changes. Time will never replace her, but it does give us time to restructure and reflect on how lucky we were, and sometimes that eases the pain of loss. Take good care of yourselves and of each other. Godspeed to your Mom.
Rosemarie
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To Kara, John, Robert and your entire families, my heart is with you through this difficult time. I so miss your Mom, the best cousin in my life who so generously shared her time with me when I moved to Moose Jaw. She was the ever-ready battery in my life, so much energy and drive, like no other. I called her “Wonder woman” and she did it “her way”. She is and was a hard act to follow. God love every inch of her, as I am sure HE will.
I was so sad to hear that Moose Jaw has lost such a lovely and monumental person. Doreen was one of the most beautiful souls I have ever known.
I met her when I was a teenager. She was friends with my mum, so when she needed a babysitter, my mum took me to meet her. Wow! She blew me away. She was funny, kind, and so disarming. I instantly felt at ease with her. Even her kids –John, Robert, and Kara — were easy to babysit!
After I grew up and moved away, I would see Doreen only occasionally, when I was home visiting. But she was always happy to see me, and I am certain she was like this with everyone — kind, uplifting and affirming. And always so funny. I don’t know how she did it. I’ll miss her very much, as I’m sure so many people will. But for the family and close friends this must be an especially painful loss. My deepest condolences to you.
Our Deepest Sympathies to You Kara, John, Robert and Your Families
Doreen was a very Dear Friend she was one special Lady, she helped us so much at St Mary’s Romanian Orthodox Church since the day we took over the Responsibilities. Doreen came every time we went to clean and cut the grass I am not sure how I Will be able to manage without her.
We would help her at St Peter and St Paul’s Bell Tower cutting grass and cleaning to help repay all the help she gave us. Doreen helped me a great deal during my time of need. We had a very nice farewell on Facebook . Our Prayers and Thoughts are with You Kara, John and Robert and All Your Families
Robert,Faye Rusu and Our Family Troy, Tina, and Darwin
Sincere condolences to Kato’s kids and kids they were when I first met them. I met Kato ( and her 36 inch ruler) when we both worked for Skippy at MJ WAP in 1980. She was the left handed guardian on all who dared walk past her desk at the office. Beware! As that ruler will get the unwary. Hence Kato jumping out at the most unexpected moment. “ Just because I can “ she used to say when someone asked why they got smacked from a whack of her ruler. “You weren’t paying attention “. She was always cheerful when I came in and gave me her version of Shippy’s attitude. She was THE person I looked forward to talking with. She was the reason Kara got the most envied and often duplicated uni-eyebrow before it became world wide famous. Not the instigator but a willing observer. “Do it” she said. So it happened. I owe a lot to Kato for just being herself. I will certainly miss her.
Bill Ireland.